Decide together. What kind of story do you want to tell your grandchildren one day? The mirror broke and the ice cream melted, so you wallowed the rest of the day? Or the mirror broke and the ice cream melted, so you took a shot of tequila together, smooched behind the bar, laughed and kept dancing? Which way do you want to start the rest of your story together? How will you set the tone for how you two handle the curve balls for the rest of forever? It’s all up to you. Start early on those vows, and vow together to trudge through the crazy. I promise you, laughing through it all is so worth it. Tie the knot, cross my heart.